Lazy, Hazy Days of Summer
October 31, 2015
As I drive around the beautiful and spectacular Blue Ridge Mountains I am reminded of the work of God’s hand. The vibrant and lush colors of Autumn are popping out; the clear and cool air allows for some awesome views from overlooks.
However, as we have gone into the autumn season, I am reminded of a final summer experience Susan and I had. On Labor Day, we drove to Blue Ridge, Georgia and up the Toccoa River where we stepped into the cold (yes, cold!) flowing waters and tubed the Toccoa. What began as an overcast morning, turned into one of the most beautiful, sunny mornings that afforded exactly what our bodies, minds and souls needed—nothing.
Not exactly “nothing,” but for two and a half hours we did “nothing.” This “nothing” of an experience, however, reminded me of a few lessons.
One, we all need respite. We live in such a fast-paced, winner-takes-all society that if we do not stop, rest and retool, we will quickly burn out. Once I plopped down into the inflated pink (yes, real men do wear pink!) inner tube, I didn’t have to decide much of anything. I rested in physics to take me where I should go.
Second, as song writer Jack Johnson put it, it is better together. As we checked in we were given an additional strap to tether our tubes so that we could stay connected. We realized that we were on this journey together, and together it would be fun. Drifting apart would have meant more energy to attempt to reconnect or catch up.
Third, goes along with “second,” the momentum of one helped when another got stuck. Invariably an obstacle, usually a large rock, protruded out of the swift moving water and would catch the one in the front. While this manned inner tube sat there paralyzed against the fighting forces of rock and rushing water, the tethered inner tube would gently float around and find the current’s flow around the rock. Being tethered the “free” tube would persuade the other to follow. And this happened time and again. It didn’t matter which one got stuck, the other was there to urge forward movement.
Fourth, life vests are for a purpose. For the most part, I didn’t need this designer orange floatation device for its purpose, so I used it as a pillow. Which by the new definition fulfilled its purpose!
Last, relying on others, particularly strangers, is important. While we did not actually hear “Dueling Banjos” playing, several times I did wander if the tubing company would actually pick us up at the end and return us to our car.
Respite is not only a good thing, it is God-ordained. Take it when you can; make it happen for your spiritual, emotional and physical health.
Life is a journey that cannot and should not be done solo. Find those whose life resonates with yours and tether together. You won’t drift apart and when you get stuck, their momentum will help you along.
If you cannot fully utilize something for its designed purpose, maybe there is a secondary function you can use it for.
Relying on others requires trust. Trust others around you and those whose paths you cross today to help you achieve today’s goals.
Mostly, go enjoy this adventure called life.